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Not sure how to talk to your partner about coaching?

Follow these three steps:

Prepare yourself

Before you even think about approaching your partner tap into the part of you that remembers what drew you together in the beginning. Find the love you still have inside, and the place within that authentically wants to see your relationship succeed. Approach with love and compassion for your partner.

Set up for success

Look for a moment where you are both relaxed. Don’t have this conversation when they are preoccupied with work, on devices, or in a stressful moment. If they are doing something, with a gentle tone, let them know you would like to have a conversation before launching into it.
Look them in the eye with warmth and an inner smile, remembering the person you love and the relationship you are standing for. “Hey babe, can I talk to you about something?”

Sample conversations

For couples who are having trouble:
“I know we have been having some challenges lately and I take responsibility for my part in that. I love you and I know we can transform this relationship back into something amazing, but I think we need some support. I found a relationship coach who specializes in working with couples like us and I’m wondering if you would be willing to join me in a Skype call with her to see how she can help us?”

For couples who are ready to up-level their relationship:
“We have an amazing relationship and I know we are both interested in growing as individuals and together. I’m imagining the next level of expansion in communication, intimacy and exploration. I’m ready to use our relationship as a way to unleash our full potential. Are you open to exploring this with me? I found a coach who specializes in working with couples and I’m wondering, would you be willing to join me in a Skype call with her to see how she can help us up-level our partnership and impact even more people?”

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“Jamie offers a more powerful form of couples coaching than regular talk therapy”

"Jamie offers a more powerful form of couples coaching than regular talk therapy and I would recommend her to anyone interested in improving their relationship with their partner. She was able to provide my partner and I with valuable insight into the underlying dynamics that affected the way we relate to each other. Jamie helped us learn how to work on these issues without playing the "blame game." Working with Jamie, I found it much easier to look at my behaviors and the solutions with true detachment.” -R & L
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2017-07-19T18:33:06+00:00
"Jamie offers a more powerful form of couples coaching than regular talk therapy and I would recommend her to anyone interested in improving their relationship with their partner. She was able to provide my partner and I with valuable insight into the underlying dynamics that affected the way we relate to each other. Jamie helped us learn how to work on these issues without playing the "blame game." Working with Jamie, I found it much easier to look at my behaviors and the solutions with true detachment.” -R & L

“I wish they taught this in school.”

“Working with Jamie was a great experience! She listened to our concerns and offered creative step-by-step solutions, never using a cookie-cutter mentality. She made the — potentially awkward — sensual embodiment work fun and enjoyable while using practical techniques that worked on our specific issues. Now we know so much more about effective communication. I wish they taught this in school.” -J.H.
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“Working with Jamie was a great experience! She listened to our concerns and offered creative step-by-step solutions, never using a cookie-cutter mentality. She made the — potentially awkward — sensual embodiment work fun and enjoyable while using practical techniques that worked on our specific issues. Now we know so much more about effective communication. I wish they taught this in school.” -J.H.

“Today I went up to my wife and was kissing her neck and playing with her hair…”

"Before we started with you I didn’t like the direction we were headed. We were bickering and I was shutting down to my wife’s desires, the distance between us was growing. Now we’ve turned over a new leaf, we catch the spiral before we start arguing and we do the steps to recalibrate.  Today I went up to my wife and was kissing her neck and playing with her hair (I do this more now!). Our daughter was playing with toys and she got quiet. She was looking at us with so much joy. It was a good reminder that the way we are around her is important. I felt proud of my life and my relationship.” -M & A
5.0
2017-07-19T18:15:20+00:00
"Before we started with you I didn’t like the direction we were headed. We were bickering and I was shutting down to my wife’s desires, the distance between us was growing. Now we’ve turned over a new leaf, we catch the spiral before we start arguing and we do the steps to recalibrate.  Today I went up to my wife and was kissing her neck and playing with her hair (I do this more now!). Our daughter was playing with toys and she got quiet. She was looking at us with so much joy. It was a good reminder that the way we are around her is important. I felt proud of my life and my relationship.” -M & A

“Things that have been blocking my intimate relationships for years are no longer an issue.”

"Your brilliant guidance has brought me to a place where I'm earning more than ever before, in a way that feels totally aligned with my personal desires as an entrepreneur. Having so much flow in my business has afforded me the time to connect and communicate with my partner in a whole new way. Things that have been blocking my intimate relationships for years are no longer an issue because I'm able to openly share what I need from him, emotionally and in the bedroom. This newfound clarity about my own needs and the courage to express myself is totally rocking my world!" -C.C.
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2017-07-19T18:15:58+00:00
"Your brilliant guidance has brought me to a place where I'm earning more than ever before, in a way that feels totally aligned with my personal desires as an entrepreneur. Having so much flow in my business has afforded me the time to connect and communicate with my partner in a whole new way. Things that have been blocking my intimate relationships for years are no longer an issue because I'm able to openly share what I need from him, emotionally and in the bedroom. This newfound clarity about my own needs and the courage to express myself is totally rocking my world!" -C.C.

“The fire was going out and now it’s hot again!”

"In the beginning we were difficult to work with, our lives were all over the place, but you kept us on track and focused on ‘stoking the fire’ and communicating our desires through the overwhelming schedule. Once we learned how to communicate better we were able to open up to each other sexually and now we are exploring and it’s a lot of fun. The fire was going out and now it’s hot again! We are on more solid footing and we have tools to handle the truth as it comes up. If we start to get in a sexual rut we come back to those tools.” -B & M
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2017-07-19T18:26:52+00:00
"In the beginning we were difficult to work with, our lives were all over the place, but you kept us on track and focused on ‘stoking the fire’ and communicating our desires through the overwhelming schedule. Once we learned how to communicate better we were able to open up to each other sexually and now we are exploring and it’s a lot of fun. The fire was going out and now it’s hot again! We are on more solid footing and we have tools to handle the truth as it comes up. If we start to get in a sexual rut we come back to those tools.” -B & M
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