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Not sure how to talk to your partner about coaching?

Follow these three steps:

Prepare yourself

Before you even think about approaching your partner tap into the part of you that remembers what drew you together in the beginning. Find the love you still have inside, and the place within that authentically wants to see your relationship succeed. Approach with love and compassion for your partner.

Set up for success

Look for a moment where you are both relaxed. Don’t have this conversation when they are preoccupied with work, on devices, or in a stressful moment. If they are doing something, with a gentle tone, let them know you would like to have a conversation before launching into it.
Look them in the eye with warmth and an inner smile, remembering the person you love and the relationship you are standing for. “Hey babe, can I talk to you about something?”

Sample conversations

For couples who are having trouble:
“I know we have been having some challenges lately and I take responsibility for my part in that. I love you and I know we can transform this relationship back into something amazing, but I think we need some support. I found a relationship coach who specializes in working with couples like us and I’m wondering if you would be willing to join me in a Skype call with her to see how she can help us?”

For couples who are ready to up-level their relationship:
“We have an amazing relationship and I know we are both interested in growing as individuals and together. I’m imagining the next level of expansion in communication, intimacy and exploration. I’m ready to use our relationship as a way to unleash our full potential. Are you open to exploring this with me? I found a coach who specializes in working with couples and I’m wondering, would you be willing to join me in a Skype call with her to see how she can help us up-level our partnership and impact even more people?”

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“I thought I had lost attraction for my wife. I realized it was that I was repressing my true sexual desire for her”

“I thought I had lost attraction for my wife. I realized it was that I was repressing my true sexual desire for her because I loved her so much. I’m so grateful for the clarity that Jamie’s support with erotic menu has given me to help take my desires out of my fantasy world and into my real world sex life… WITH my wife! I thought my desires were “taboo” and not ok. She showed me that there has an entire section of the erotic menu dedicated to people like me with kinky desires. My wife responded differently to my risqué ideas and with this new context, actually enjoyed them too. We have deeper trust and connection, and a fulfilling sex life.”
-S & E
5.0
2019-10-16T06:26:53+00:00
“I thought I had lost attraction for my wife. I realized it was that I was repressing my true sexual desire for her because I loved her so much. I’m so grateful for the clarity that Jamie’s support with erotic menu has given me to help take my desires out of my fantasy world and into my real world sex life… WITH my wife! I thought my desires were “taboo” and not ok. She showed me that there has an entire section of the erotic menu dedicated to people like me with kinky desires. My wife responded differently to my risqué ideas and with this new context, actually enjoyed them too. We have deeper trust and connection, and a fulfilling sex life.” -S & E

“The Erotic Menu has opened an incredible dialogue where now I actually have a working language to talk about my desires”

“The Erotic Menu has opened an incredible dialogue where now I actually have a working language to talk about my desires with my husband in concrete terms he understands. It changes, just like I do, but our sex is so different now… it’s what I have always wanted but didn’t know how to talk about. It’s so sexy to receive what I asked for and now he’s opening up more and giving me feedback on what he really wants!”
-L & S
5.0
2019-10-16T06:25:41+00:00
“The Erotic Menu has opened an incredible dialogue where now I actually have a working language to talk about my desires with my husband in concrete terms he understands. It changes, just like I do, but our sex is so different now… it’s what I have always wanted but didn’t know how to talk about. It’s so sexy to receive what I asked for and now he’s opening up more and giving me feedback on what he really wants!” -L & S

“We started having mind-blowing sex and my confidence went though the roof”

“When my wife and I started working with Jamie, I hadn’t closed a deal in 6 months. My health was a mess. I had low self-esteem due to the lack of sex in our relationship. I wasn’t sure if I’d ever be able to please her. Through working with Jamie and learning her ninja communication techniques and the Erotic Menu, we started having mind-blowing sex and my confidence went though the roof. This year long battle with a health issue cleared up. I’ve been closing plenty of deals. My wife is so happy with this new version of me, I can see it in her eyes. Talk about a full life turn around.”
-A & P
5.0
2019-10-16T06:26:17+00:00
“When my wife and I started working with Jamie, I hadn’t closed a deal in 6 months. My health was a mess. I had low self-esteem due to the lack of sex in our relationship. I wasn’t sure if I’d ever be able to please her. Through working with Jamie and learning her ninja communication techniques and the Erotic Menu, we started having mind-blowing sex and my confidence went though the roof. This year long battle with a health issue cleared up. I’ve been closing plenty of deals. My wife is so happy with this new version of me, I can see it in her eyes. Talk about a full life turn around.” -A & P

“I feel seen for the first time, and we both get what we want now.”

“Before working with Jamie my partner and I used to get in fights about sex. We have a hard time being on the same page. He said my requests were “needy” and that I always rejected his advances. He has apologized for not listening to me and I finally communicated with him about what I really want from sex. We got to explore our own personal “erotic menus” together. I told him that right now I need more romance, and he loves primal. Through Jamie’s guidance, I feel seen for the first time, and we both get what we want now.”
-H & D
5.0
2019-10-16T06:25:07+00:00
“Before working with Jamie my partner and I used to get in fights about sex. We have a hard time being on the same page. He said my requests were “needy” and that I always rejected his advances. He has apologized for not listening to me and I finally communicated with him about what I really want from sex. We got to explore our own personal “erotic menus” together. I told him that right now I need more romance, and he loves primal. Through Jamie’s guidance, I feel seen for the first time, and we both get what we want now.” -H & D

“When we’re fucking I am completely in my body & my pleasure, and fully in play–all things I never thought possible for me”

“When we started this journey I thought there was something wrong with me. I thought I had a low sex drive. I experienced sex in relationship as an obligation and something I did for my partner rather than something I did for me. When you asked me what turned me on at our first session I remember I barely had anything to say. I was so disconnected from my own pleasure and who I am as a sexual being.

Fast forward to now and I'm having sensual pleasure I NEVER thought I'd be having. I somehow effortlessly attracted the most incredible lover who happens to be into the same kind of sex I am. (Divine & Taboo hybrid from the Erotic Menu) I am so turned on all the time I now (jokingly) wonder if I have a sex addiction! And the best part is when we're fucking I am completely in my body, completely in my pleasure, and fully in play--all things I never thought possible for me in sex but desperately wanted.

I am a new woman. I have a completely new experience of myself. I feel like I now understand how my pleasure works and I’ve definitely turned. it. on. Working with you has given me something I've been dying for for years but had no idea how to access. I can't thank you enough.”
-E.C.
5.0
2019-10-16T06:24:25+00:00
“When we started this journey I thought there was something wrong with me. I thought I had a low sex drive. I experienced sex in relationship as an obligation and something I did for my partner rather than something I did for me. When you asked me what turned me on at our first session I remember I barely had anything to say. I was so disconnected from my own pleasure and who I am as a sexual being. Fast forward to now and I'm having sensual pleasure I NEVER thought I'd be having. I somehow effortlessly attracted the most incredible lover who happens to be into the same kind of sex I am. (Divine & Taboo hybrid from the Erotic Menu) I am so turned on all the time I now (jokingly) wonder if I have a sex addiction! And the best part is when we're fucking I am completely in my body, completely in my pleasure, and fully in play--all things I never thought possible for me in sex but desperately wanted. I am a new woman. I have a completely new experience of myself. I feel like I now understand how my pleasure works and I’ve definitely turned. it. on. Working with you has given me something I've been dying for for years but had no idea how to access. I can't thank you enough.” -E.C.
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Podcasts

“Awaken Your Sexual Self” – with Mark Groves

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“Awakening Your Erotic Self” with Stephanie Ganowski

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“Let’s Talk About ‘Holistic Sex” – with Alexis Haines

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“How to Create More Intimacy and have Better Sex” – “Fit Dad Nation” with Steve Roy

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“Relationship ROI” & Neuroscience – “Ignite Intimacy” with Laura Aiisha

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“Your Erotic Life could be the Greatest Personal Resource” – “The Guest List” with Jason Allan Scott

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“How to have the Intimacy & Sex Life you Deeply Desire” – Soul Spark Radio K4HD

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“Two Women on a Journey through Six Vulnerable Taboo Topics” – “Tuff Love” with Robert Kandell 

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“Discover your Desire & Ask for it – “Women Inspired” with April Seifert

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“Improving your Erotic Life Using the “Erotic Menu” ” – Soul Spark Radio K4HD

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